Tuesday, April 29, 2008
Handyman Hubby
Update
Week 1:
Obviously week 1 was a breeze. A honeymoon in Paradise, people to wait on you hand and foot, not a care in the world. It was everything I dreamed it would be.
Week 2:
Like I have written before, this was the shocker. I kept thinking (and still sometimes do), "Are we really married? Do I live here?" You know, questions like that seem to make me look twice at the now two rings on my left hand. Honestly, this was a hard week for me. I didn't know where anything went, had no clue what to do. I was surrounded by gifts, clothes, shoes, and tons of bathroom stuff to put up without a clue of where it went. Hunter was very understanding and knew it would take some adjusting on both of our parts. He was trying to get things done around the house that he didn't have time to do before the wedding and I was just trying to find my place. I obviously felt a little home sick at times. Hunter was working almost 12 hour days since someone went on vacation the week he came back. So I was at home with Lucy. We basically slept, eat, and watched TV. She is a lazy dog and was quite happy with not being locked up. Not a very productive week.
I went home on Friday to get more of my things moved out. Mom and I went to see Chicago which was great and then she had to drop me off at Hunter's parents house, since we were staying there. The swapping has already begun. We always wondered how it would be to have both families in the same town, but really it's not bad and we see both sides pretty equally. This was totally weird for Mom and me both. Saturday, we eat breakfast, went to see the grandparents, stopped by my house, and came back to Lexington.
We got all the gifts, more of my clothes, and shoes to take back. Hunter also drove his truck down with a trailer so we could take a piece of my furniture back.
Week 3:
Rearranged my clothes in my furniture. It felt right for them to be where they belong. I figured out where all the other clothes would have a new home and organized them. By then, I was starting to feel more at home. We had cooked a lot together and been doing some home improvement projects, so things were looking up.
We stayed in Lexington this past weekend and did more "improvements."
Week 4:
So far so good. Feeling used to the space now and used to Hunter...I think. It's funny how much to thought you knew about a person, till you live with them. All the little things you find they do completely opposite of you. And I'm sure there are things I do that he doesn't understand either. So we are working on it and enjoying the time we have together. We love doing everything together: go to the grocery store, Lowe's, lake...whatever it is, we just like being together.
Just maybe we have found out what marriage is all about!
IT WORKS!!!
The Video
Here is the video you all have been requesting. I'm not sure how it will look, and didn't even thing the blogger would let me upload it, but here it is. If you joined us at the rehearsal dinner, you know how great this is and how much effort it took to make it play right. If you weren't there, this is a video of photos Hunter made of us growing up and then photos of us together. He spent many long, hard hours making sure everything was perfect and each song was exactly right for the pictures. He spent so much time on this and I'm so happy to share it with everyone. Pray it works and Enjoy!


